Relationships, more than any other
part of our lives, define who we are and what we
value. Family ties, love relationships and friendships all contribute in large
part to our level of happiness and feeling of fulfillment.
healthy relationships – creating them and keeping them – should rank high on our list of priorities for living a
can provide immense joy and personal satisfaction, but they can also be
frustrating or painful. Like most that is good in life, a good relationship
relationships are marked by tension, fighting, blame, dissatisfaction, drained
energy and unhappiness. They are generally driven by unconscious beliefs and
relationships may demonstrate ease, collaboration, accountability, contentment,
creative energy and joy. They are created with conscious awareness of beliefs
you are single and longing to be
experience better relationships, or you are in a
relationship and longing for it to be better, or you are in a great
relationship and want to live it in sacred
awareness, the path to getting what you want
begins with your primary relationship...to your self.
quality of experience you have in your relationships is a direct reflection of
the quality of experience you have inside yourself. Given a willing and
like-intended partner, the possibilities are limitless.
We cannot control or change how our partners, lovers,
friends feel and behave. We cannot even make them to want what we want. But we CAN take charge of our own feelings and
behaviors. Only by taking responsibility for ourselves in relationship, do we
choose conscious living and create the relationships we
truly long for.